It was with wonder and great interest that I read Monica Hesse’s April 11 Style column, “Tradwives, stay-at-home girlfriends and ‘a thing called ease.’” As the president of a college for women, I found myself wondering why so many people are entranced by the spectacle of young women making a highly questionable choice — though it’s absolutely their choice to make — instead of lifting up the many women who are, in fact, striving to change their lives by getting an education and tackling the travails of the world.